arguments

why would anyone stay calm during an argument? Its not like anyone could understand the other's point of view without everyone yelling at each other. You can actually hear the other person if your yelling, who could hear anything if you were just calm and collective in your frustrations?And it's not like anyone would listen to you if you didn't throw it in their face obnoxiously over and over again. Plus who needs actual evidence to back up ones claim? It should just be assumed that your always right all the time. Everyone loves to get into heated discussions why else would they shout with excitement at every word the other says? There is no sense in having a discussion that involves people being open minded and actually listens what other people says. If you wanted to keep an open mind why would you get into an argument in the first place?